

When people asked me where I worked, I could confidently mention the organisation’s name, but I struggled to clearly explain its purpose or the difference it makes in communities. I was aware that I was part of something meaningful, but I had not yet fully connected to its mission.
As my internship was coming to an end, I decided to apply for the FLAC programme. I was uncertain at first, but I encouraged myself to take the opportunity and learn more about the work being done beyond my immediate role. That decision became a turning point in my personal and professional growth.
After receiving my appointment letter, I attended the FLAC Alumni Graduation, where we were officially introduced as the second cohort. It was an inspiring experience to meet stakeholders, funders, and partners who support the programme. Our first session with Mme Matshilo immediately pushed me out of my comfort zone. The sessions that followed were both educational and challenging, requiring us to reflect deeply on issues affecting our communities and to openly share our perspectives with others.
As someone who was naturally shy and often preferred to stay in the background, the FLAC programme played a significant role in helping me find my voice. One of the most defining moments of my journey was when I spoke at KwaThema TVET College in front of approximately 300 students. I addressed them on consent and stealthing, a topic that is both sensitive and important. Although I was extremely nervous, that moment helped me realise the confidence and courage I was developing through the programme.
Another impactful experience was my participation in the Men Lead the Charge Against GBVF: Karabelo GBVF Response Programme in Thabazimbi during the 16 Days of Activism. During this event, I had the opportunity to introduce the CEO to the community, which further strengthened my public speaking skills and confidence in engaging with diverse audiences.
The FLAC programme also provides fellows with valuable workplace experience. I was placed at the Soul City Institute Head Office under the Communications and Advocacy Department. In this role, I support administrative tasks while also contributing as a communications intern. This experience has been highly valuable, as it allows me to attend various events and gain deeper insight into the realities faced by different communities.
Through structured sessions on Activism, Feminism 101, Sexual and Reproductive Health and Rights (SRHR), and leadership, the FLAC programme has significantly shaped my growth. It has helped me build confidence, strengthen my voice, and deepen my understanding of social justice issues.
Overall, my journey with Soul City and FLAC continues to inspire me to become a stronger advocate for change. It has empowered me to challenge patriarchal systems, support young women, and actively contribute to building more just and equitable communities.
